Mogul Ettiquette 101…How To Tie A Bowtie

Every once in a while your style will require the service of a freshly tied bow tie. If yours doesn’t, you may want to reconsider. The bow tie has gotten a bad wrap  over the years thanks to cohorts like ruffles and cummerbunds; but classic styling like the tuxedo, and pattern mixing (for the fashionably advanced) will ultimately call for the subtle quirk a well chosen bow tie can add. And since no self-respecting man of style has much use for anything that clips on, outside of suspenders, tie clips, and cuff links… UML offers this piece of stylish education

 

 Enjoy,

I.B.Edubl 

Mogul Etiquette 101….. Mobile Phone

If a Mogul is in the company of others at a dinner, bar, living room, etc. they should not spend the entire night checking their phone. No playing Angry Birds, no updating Facebook, no sending instagrams. In fact your phone should be in your pocket more than in your hand.

Mogul Etiquette 101….. The Shuffle

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I know it is tempting, but never select “shuffle” at the party because you were too lazy to create a playlist before hand. Imagine a house full of beautiful people and after the Jay-Z song comes the one Neil Diamond song you have on your iPod. Dooohhh! Not a good look.

Moguls create, we don’t shuffle.

Mogul Etiquette 101: Social Networking Advice

Social networking is here for a minute. Not sure if it is here to stay, being that things change over time. But I will bet that in some form or another social networking will be here for a while. So that means that we have to master it and not let it master you.

One aspect that is a definite that we control is how we look to future employers, because it should come to no surprise that they are watching. From the moment you place your résumé in their hands they have some nosy cat sitting right by the monitor seeing what they can find on you. What stupid picture you posted with a bag of green in your hands. Or the countless pictures of half-naked models you have posted everywhere. They will see it and decipher if it is a good look or not.

First I would recommend closing down all routes to your page from snooping eyes. Make privacy your priority. If they aren’t in your friends list, then they should have no access to your page. I would also add to it, be careful about which co-workers you let in your social media business. If it is something like LinkedIn then it is cool. But Facebook?? Nah I would think again.

Black Enterprise also has a list of things you can do for those snooping eyes looking for you.

 

1. Status Updates: Posting content that relates to your area of study can position you as a candidate that stays current in his/her area of expertise. Including links to content solidifies that you’re actively identifying valuable content to share with your community.

2. Checking-In: Location-based check-ins such as Foursquare or Facebook Places can be a great way to connect with people in the real world. Your check-ins communicates a lot about you as a person, your lifestyle, the places you frequent and the time you visit those locations. Make sure what you’re sharing reflects what you want to communicate to the outside world.

3. Profanity on Facebook Wall: A recent study by Reppler, which studied 30K Facebook users, identified that 47% of Facebook walls contain profanity. Be sure to monitor and manage your Facebook wall because what’s there communicates a lot about your personal brand to potential employers—even if it’s your friends who are posting the profanity on your wall.

4. Angry Posts: Your social networks are not the place to have meaningless arguments or to create angry posts where you go back and forth discussing non-value added content. Take these discussions offline and save yourself the embarrassment of coming off angry or hateful.

5. Spamming on Your Wall: If people are tagging you on photos and put posts on your wall that are not related to you that’s spam. You can adjust your settings and restrict permission by blocking people from leaving comments on your wall. You want to look like someone that’s ready to work not just another billboard.

6. Embarrassing Photos: This is one of the most important tips and can never be over emphasized. It’s essential to remove or untag yourself from embarrassing photos that don’t represent you in a positive light. What was funny to you and your friends may be a big red flag for potential employers. Private moments should remain that way.

7. Engage Your Community: When posting content remember to engage your community versus focusing on content about you. You never know who is listening to your online conversations and you don’t want to come off as being self-centered or arrogant.

 

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Mogul Etiquette 101: Tom Ford’s Tips

Tom Ford drops his jewelz on how to be a modern gentleman in today’s world.

1. You should put on the best version of yourself when you go out in the world because that is a show of respect to the other people around you.

2. A gentleman today has to work. People who do not work are so boring and are usually bored. You have to be passionate, you have to be engaged and you have to be contributing to the world.

3. Manners are very important and actually knowing when things are appropriate. I always open doors for women, I carry their coat, I make sure that they’re walking on the inside of the street. Stand up when people arrive at and leave the dinner table.

4. Don’t be pretentious or racist or sexist or judge people by their background.

5. A man should never wear shorts in the city. Flip-flops and shorts in the city are never appropriate. Shorts should only be worn on the tennis court or on the beach.

Mogul Etiquette 101: Put This On-Tradition

For you Moguls that need to learn about what you wearing, check out Put This On. The latest episode entitled Tradition, features Jay Walter, head of Made-to-Measure at J.Press, and acclaimed fashion designer Thom Browne. This is definitly for the grown man who knows not to sag his pants!!

Mogul Etiquette 101….. The Rules of Being Late

Everyone runs a little late from time to time. But  a Mogul knows how to play it and still remain smooth throughout the ordeal. If you are running late, you should call and let the party know immediately. (Not a party-party because they may not care when you get there if at all, but the type of party where people are waiting for your arrival for whatever reason i.e.dinner resevations.)

If you will be….

10 minutes late….. Make a phone call letting them know you are running 5 minutes behind.

20 minutes late….. Call them up, apologize and give them a non detailed reason on why you will be late. Hopefully at this point you are not putting them in a situation where they are depending on your arrival before the party jumps off!

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Mogul Etiquette 101….The Style Commandments For Dressing Up

There is more to life than jeans and Air Force 1′s!! I know that goes without saying, but sometimes you just have to let it be known. I big-up Jay-Z for taking men out of jerseys to button-ups. That was a good look all the way around, because I swear I saw a cat in a jersey at a wedding reception!! Don’t ask. But now it seems like some of us have taken a step back. Not to jerseys, but to the ass-out jean wearing like Pac in Juice fashion.

So this goes out to you gentlemen. A sort of Mogul fashion guide so that you to can get your Daily Cool on!

  1. Get a tailor. Whenever you buy anything that would be considered a suit or blazer do yourself a cool one and get it tailored up. Whenever you buy off the rack chances are it ain’t fitting you right. This is a rule that many men overlook and end up looking quite not right. Pants legs need to be shortened, coats need to be brought in, and buttons need to be realigned. Sh*t needs to made whole. Get your cool on and find a tailor, your lady will thank you later. Continue reading

The Only 5 Social Media Sites Moguls Need(Swipe)

Suffering from social media overload? Join the club. It seems as if every week as there’s another site everyone’s buzzing about that you must be on and another network you’re getting invitations to join. James Andrews, a managing partner of the Atlanta-based social media communications company Everywhere, blogs and tweets as the “Key Influencer” while helping companies develop social media strategies. And he says you can have an effective social media presence by being in just a few places. We asked Andrews to boil it down for you to the absolute musts.

Twitter (For Businesses and Professionals)

“It’s a wonderful place for people to learn more about what’s inside your head. Twitter is important because of the ability to get news fast from the people you want to hear from.” Andrews also points out that if your business isn’t on Facebook and Twitter, savvy consumers will make assumptions about it.

Facebook (For Businesses)

For businesses, Andrews suggests leveraging the sheer number of users on Facebook by engaging them though a fan page or Facebook groups. “There are 600 million people on Facebook, and they now are yearning and searching for more. Your brand could be that thing that satiates their appetite.”

YouTube (For Businesses)

“Video is becoming just as powerful as text, and YouTube is the second largest search engine behind Google. Especially if you have a product, it’s a great place to do unveilings.” Andrews says how-to videos do especially well on YouTube, so boost business by helping people learn to use your product.

Wikipedia (For Professionals)

Andrews calls Wikipedia the “attic” of social media because many people don’t think about how they are or aren’t represented there. “Wikipedia is highly indexable; it’s a great place to put your bio up to allow people to see who you are. If you’re a public person, you definitely want to pay attention to it.”

LinkedIn (For Professionals)

“For a professional, LinkedIn is critical. LinkedIn’s a great place to be found by headhunters but also to connect with other professionals.” Andrews suggests LinkedIn groups for engaging with like-minded people and also linking your profile to your Twitter account for greater exposure.

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Mogul Etiquette 101…. The Art of Sexting

With the Ole Gunslinger catching so much flack for his off the field Croc picks, now is as perfect time as any to share sexting etiquette for those of you who likes to partake in such things.

First let me say this, UML does not condone these extra-assticular activities. You are a grwon man, and no grown man should take porn pictures of their private for another lady to see. The risk is too great for cheap thrills like that. And after the Tiger Woods episode, we all know how bad it can end for you.

Women are saving messages for their own use down the road. Smart men will remember back to the Bill Clinton fiasco; who keeps soiled dresses? If women saves dresses on yo ass, you know a pic or two is nothing for them to upload to the pc folder!! Be careful; don’t do it! But if you are feeling rather frisky, follow these rules and hopefully you won’t get caught up in that ole BS.

 

No Images, Just Words -  Men are turned on by pictures where the average lady doesn’t want to have anything to do with them. That’s why we love porn so much. All we need is a picture and we are good to go. It can be of any part of the female body and men are hyped, but women don’t get turned on by looking at a man’s pride and joy. Send a lady a picture of that and you may never speak to her again! Continue reading

Mogul Etiquette 101….The Well Stocked Bar

Pretty soon the parties will be brought indoors and you need to make sure that if you are offering drinks, you are well prepared. It is important that you not only have a variety of drinks, but you should also make sure you offer quality drinks. You don’t need to have every liquor that the store sells, but you should make sure that you at least have mid-level drinky drinks available. A bottle or two every time you buy groceries and your bar will be stocked in no time!! Bring on those holiday get-togethers at your crib!!! You will be prepared!

The Drinks

  • Rye Whiskey
  • Scotch Whiskey
  • Vodka
  • Dark Rum
  • White Rum
  • Tequila
  • Gin
  • Cognac
  • Red Wine
  • White Wine
  • Beer
  • Sweet Vermouth
  • Dry Vermouth

The Drinkware

  • 6 regular glasses
  • 6 highball glasses
  • 6 martini glasses
  • 6 wine glasses

 

Mogul Etiquette 101…Tattoo Placement

I get it…getting ‘Inked’ is the thing to do right now.  I’ve got no problem with a little well placed body art, but everyday I find myself staring at somebody who missed the memo on Mogul Tattoo Etiquette. Now, we’re not all that stuffy over here @ UML, but we do feel like body art should be a choice you make in life…not the choice that defines your life.  Your Tat should be creative…but personal.  It should be something that you can always be proud of.  It should be done by an artist who takes pride in his work, cleans his tools, and knows his trade.  And lastly…understand that where you choose to put a Tat says as much about you as the image you choose.  With that being said, here’s a little chart to help guide you through your Tattoo Experience.  As with anything, it does not address every tattoo or every circumstance, but it will shed some light on what the placement of your Tattoo could be saying to others…

*Note: UML did not create this chart. It is for entertainment purposes only and was not intended to offend anyone.